tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20017291.post116006094240313117..comments2024-01-20T03:32:29.697-05:00Comments on South Meets East: Friends, again...Neshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11578361428396428941noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20017291.post-1160062374268712152006-10-05T11:32:00.000-04:002006-10-05T11:32:00.000-04:00You're not alone... one of my very good friends dr...You're not alone... one of my very good friends dropped off the face of the planet because the man she married didn't 'like me' in her life, (we'd been best friends since high school) so rather than tell him to get over his 'jealous controlling self' she just "changed". She wasn't the same person, she morphed into this new woman that, had I met her today, would not want to be friends with- sadly. It just happens... and truth be told, I've made a few new friends who I now know I could not live with out, period. Karen is one of them. I know things happen for a reason & I am sad that a friendship that, was so important to us both years ago, means so little to her now... but who am I to bother fighting for pole position with a husband I didn't approve of to begin with. Not my bag of tricks, I have better things to accomplish & better friends to spend my time with. Unless my friend gets divorced, I don't ever see us being friends again, period. I have no tolerance for jealous, controlling, petty people and even though she's not like that, she married someone who is & that makes them a team that I'm not comfortable playing nice with, ya know?<BR/><BR/>And I've had those 'all too real' dreams too... sucks cuz you wake up thinking "holy shit, is she hiding under my bed or what?"... but then you figure out that it was just a dream, it's kinda like a cold hard slap in the face when you know that no, you're still not friends with this person & although you miss the old friendship, things just change in life, even if we don't want them to. They just do... It's too bad too because wouldn't it be nice if we could all just stay children forever & never have to deal with the adult crap that inevitably gets tossed our way? Especially in our 30's... I find more shit being thrown at me now than when I was in high school... only difference now is that I am old enough to choose not to indulge those doing the throwing.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16039709372859797020noreply@blogger.com